Avoiding them will only make your life harder, try accepting that it's difficult instead. Accepting the reality of a difficult relationship allows us to soften and this softening will open the door to your own wisdom.
2. Don't take responsibility for their suffering.
The other person will probably tell you that you are the cause of all their bad feelings and this is not true. If you take responsibility for their suffering, they will never have the opportunity to take it for themselves.
3. Tell the truth.
Be sure to them your truth instead of your judgment or what you imagine to be true for other people.
4. Keep you calm.
Do what you need to remain calm, so you can respond instead of react.
5. Have mercy.
Having kindness and forgiveness for this person will ultimately make your life better. Our mercy boomerangs back to us.
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