20th Review

What is personality?

The personality is the typical pattern of thinking, feeling, and behaviors that make a person unique.

Everyone wants to be attractive to others. Having a good personality is vital – probably even more so than good looks.

In fact, approximately 85% of your success and happiness will be a result of how well you interact with others. Ultimately, it is your personality that determines whether people are attracted to, or shy away from you.

While we can only enhance our looks to a certain extent, we have the ability to improve the personality as much as we want.

Here are 10 great ways to improve your personality:

1.       Be a better listener.

There is nothing more appealing than having someone listen to you intently making you feel like you’re the only person in the world.

2.       Read more and expand your interests.

the more you read and cultivate new interests, the more interesting you are to others.

3.       Be a good conversationalist.

This relates to how much you read and know. Once you have much to contribute, learn how to talk about it with others. It’s refreshing to learn from others those things we don’t have the time to about read ourselves.

4.       Have an opinion.

If you have uncommon point or view or differing opinion, you are more interesting and stimulating to bewith socially (unless you’re a know-it-all, of course). A unique outlook expands everyone’s perspective.

5.       Meet new people.

Make the effort to meet new people especially those unlike you. It not only exposes you to different cultures and alternative ways of doing things, it broadens your horizons.

6.       Be yourself.

Since each of us is unique, expressing that uniqueness is what makes us interesting.

7.       Have a positive outlook and attitude.

most of us run when we see new people coming. Instead, be the kind of upbeat person who light up a room with your energy when you enter it. Do it by looking for the best in people and things.

8.       Be fun and see the humorous side of life.

When you can add fun and lightheartedness to an otherwise dull or gloomy setting, others will naturally be attracted to you, not to mention grateful.

9.       Be supportive of others.

Be the support for others when they need it just as you yourself welcome it.

10.   Have integrity and treat people with respect.

Being honest and true to your word will bring you the admiration, respect and gratitude of others. Respect for others, as well as respect for yourself.